It runs in the blood people say. It is inherited in the gene. We resemble our parents or guardian or whoever who look up too. Every pieces of us, resembles someone that is close enough to leave a mark in our life.
But yet, when it comes to negative value, which runs in the blood according to people, I can't help but to deny this. Not wanting to believe or accept this fact that we inherit the behaviour of our parents, I refuse to believe this. But, can't deny, we DO resemble our parents in some way, be it good or bad.
The only thing I can do now, is taking them as a mirror and change the person in me. Whenever I face the same problem as they did, I'll try to remind myself not to react or solve the way that did which I disagree.
But one thing I still can't figure out, is, marriage. I. Don't. Know. How.
3 comments:
marriage? no one will know until they get married. sis take it easy.
Well, I believe we are shaped BOTH by our genes as well as our environment (NATURE and NURTURE), so we may behave or act similarly to our closest ones, but definitely not identical nor are we carbon copies of them.
As for marriage, QUE SERA SERA. Are you being pressured into one? If not, there is no rush. Take it easy, enjoy your life, and if the right one happens to pass by, grab him! There's no right or wrong regarding matters of the heart, only shades of GREY.
-An old friend
I'm feeling much better now. All this just come back to me whenever I'm back home, and it makes me question my own principle, my stand and my boundary and what I believe in.
dear old friend, thanks for dropping by. Really, it encourages me. And Anonymous too, thanks!
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