After the 'rumours' spread....
I'm still confused...O_o
It happens that, most of the time, much of the rumours didn't work out that way it wanted to be at first... I was thinking, why would people spread rumours?
Again, i'm using the story of "I heard ah, A tell people that B likes C".
Okay, let's take the definition here first. I don't want to trouble myself looking into the dictionary, trying to understand what do u mean by rumours or gossip. I'll just take it as;
spreador - person who first talk/discuss/spread about the 'story' of which is according to his/her own interpretation after listening/overheard something or seeing some incident OR make out some story and added on with his/her own opinion of what she/he thinks and conclude that story to another person.
spreadee - person who receive the 'story' 2nd Hand.
Party A, B and C - characters (since it's a story, not the truth) in the 'story'.
If spreador got nothing else to talk about, then gossip about people, i'm fine with it. But what if, story is told, so that Party A and B can add Party C into their hate list? hmmm.... that makes it more interesting to continue on blogging about this......
The worst thing is, the 'story' is never been told as rumours and spreador went straight to Party B or C and tell him that A spread rumours to the whole wide world about B and C, when A and the whole wide world doesn't even know anything about that. hmm... that is so... scary.
What is Spreador trying to do? I dunno, cause i'm not cunning. I cannot think what Spreador is thinking.
Actually, think it for yourself as a spreador.
If the reputation of A you are attacking, do u think that merely with words can spoil a person's reputation? Isn't reputation is built by the respect that u give to people, the relationship u make, the cooperation that u give if you're talking about work reputation and etc u name it. In the end, people will back up A, support and hold A through, and i think, you'll be in trouble.
If the relationship between A, B and C you are attacking, do u think that words can attack a relationship. Just like, I tell u that, your partner is not good enough for u. Will u believe me? haha. If you love your partner enough, even wind and storm can't separate both of you, what bout words?! And in the end, both u and partner will hate me. Same goes to party A and B, will track the Spreador down and put Spreador in hate list instead.
If rumours is spread to make you feel better as a person, hey, no one is better than the other. it just happen that i'm good in the area of you're weak in. Stand up and have confidence in yourself. Beauty of a person is not made out of the physical look but through your heart that shines out your beauty.
What else, i really don't know.
Think with your head, not with your mind. Often we're covered by emotions and feelings that makes us unconscious. what do u really want, what u want to do, think twice first. While you're thinking that you trying to hurt A, actually you also hurting B and C at the same time. What's the point?
Life is not measured by the amount of friends that u have, not the money that you earn, not that certificates that u get as all these will not be mentioned when u leave the world. What do u want people to remember about you, is the thing that u did to people out of the heart, cause what comes from the heart touches the other. I can have 1000 friends but having no real friendship. But i have have a few real friends and live a life full with colours and wonderful excitement. What about you? Some people say, friendship is full with being self-centred and using each other. But think the other way round, friendship is about helping each other as well, and filling in the gap or weaknessess of yours.
Be real, be authentic, be who u are,
don't judge for we are nobody to judge.
don't judge for we are nobody to judge.
(disclaimer. I'm not angry or mad. do i have to repeat this all the time? This is only my thoughts and opinion, illustration above of A, B and C is nothing got to do my real life, people around me. I'm not too much in this, i'm just making myself clear as people can misinterpret words according to their own thinking. If there's anything u cannot understand or u want to fight with me, u can come to me. Not that i'm scared, I just don't want to waste my time being held for defamation -_-|||)
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